PHOENIX - NOVEMBER 23: Former Alaska Governor Sarah Palin signs her new book "America By Heart: Reflections on Family, Faith and Flag" November 23, 2010 in Phoenix, Arizona. Amid speculation about a 2012 White House bid, Palin kicked off a 16-stop tour for the book, which follows her bestselling memoir "Going Rogue" last year and is billed as a tribute to veterans, hunting and the Tea Party. (Photo by Eric Thayer/Getty Images)

Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.

Proverbs 27:5-6


Most people like to have loved ones tell us how wonderful we are and how rosy life is. If those are the only people we keep close, though, we don’t grow. Friendships built on praise alone, those that only celebrate the good times, are not whole relationships. Some of the most important people in our lives are friends who’ll say, “You’re dead wrong,” or warn, “She’s no good for you,” or even, “You’ve got a mint? No, not for me. For you.” Those are the wounds to suck up because they come from people we trust.


This is not a popular message in today’s culture where people get thrown for a loop after hearing some truth….not after our egos have been tickled all our lives. In my book America by Heart I called this out, dubbing this a “culture of undeserved self-esteem.”  Whatever you think of the show American Idol, it’s at least a corrective, a real eye-opener for many, because suddenly people who’ve been told all their lives that they sing like Whitney Houston have to come face-to-face with reality. It’s often not pretty and the judges can be harsh, but if a trusted friend had been truly honest along the way, the contestant might have found a better way to spend their time, money, effort, and resources. Honesty really is the best policy.


Sweet Freedom in Action

Welcome real friendships into your life, and when someone you trust gives you a word of constructive criticism and correction, consider it and apply it. Equally important, love your friends enough to be honest with them as well.

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